There’s something about a tradition that makes me feel safe. The constancy of doing something year after year, season after season. It warms my heart with a familiarity and structure. For as many years as I can remember, my mom and sister and I have gone up to a local blueberry patch and picked our own berries. It started when we were probably 9 or 10 years old. Two little girls, long braids, big white buckets and lots of berries. We were dreaming of owning our own horse. After riding a sweet little horse named Brandy for almost a year she was up for sale and we wanted to buy her for our very own. Being the hard working girls that we were, we had yard sales, went door to door selling veggie from our garden, picked strawberries, and many other things. One source of income was picking these succulent and famously large blueberries and selling them for a little profit to friends and neighbors. We had quite a clientele! To this day, over 20 years later, the owners still comment on how we were the hardest working little girls they had ever seen. I guess hard work as a little kid is not as common as it used to be… Ever since those early years, we all have made a yearly trek to the berry patch. No longer do we pick 100’s of pounds, but just enough to eat and freeze. As the years have gone by we have added, first my brother-in-law, then Bean, and each of the girls. It is so priceless to see them join in something I did as a little girl myself. Thursday was the perfect day, sunny with a cool mountain breeze. Berry picking is a time to catch up. I love sitting on a bucket, head bowed beneath the branches, listening to voices drift over from surrounding rows. Neighbors catching up since last berry picking season. Comparing notes and gossip on babies, and marriages and jobs. It feels good, homey and familiar. The burst of sweet tart in your mouth, the blue stains on your fingers, the “Thump thump” the berries make as they hit the bottom of your bucket. The laughter, the “I can’t believe it’s been a year already.” All this I want to share with my babies. To say, “Mommy used to come up here when she was a little girl just like you.” To see their braids and shining heads bob up and down between the rows. History and tradition. Two words that are like the bookends of life to me. Even though everything changes, some things do indeed stay the same…. |